Say aloha to the
reclaim your soulmate retreat
Enchanting Invitation to the Ultimate Passion Retreat 🌺
Step into a world of magic at Hawaii Happiness Farm, where you’ll discover the secrets to creating a sexy, passionate soulmate marriage. Nestled on 8 acres of vibrant dragon fruit, bananas, and papayas orchards. our enchanting bohemian themed Glamping Resort and tropical Farm overlooks the stunning turquoise ocean in Haleiwa, Hawaii.
What Awaits You:
Soulmate Secrets: Unlock transformative spiritual skills to ignite breathtaking love and intimacy.
Culinary Delights: Savor gourmet farm-to-table meals and refreshing tropical cocktails that celebrate our island paradise.
Boho Glamping: Immerse yourself in beautifully crafted glamping tents or cozy cabanas, surrounded by nature’s beauty.
Nature Therapy: Explore Hawaii’s stunning landscapes through hiking, paddle boarding, snorkeling and swimming, using these adventures to heal and connect.
Growing Together: Plant and nurture the land as a beautiful metaphor for the growth of your love.
Join us for a magical journey where passion blossoms and hearts heal in this idyllic paradise. Together, let’s cultivate the extraordinary love you both deserve. 🌊✨💖
Let’s get real for a second, friend
SOUND FAMILIAR?
✨ Do you often find yourself yearning for that deep, magical connection with your partner—waiting for the love that once felt so vibrant, now seemingly reserved for honeymooners? Do you wonder if soulmate love is a fleeting dream, lost as the months and years march on?
💔 Have you ever felt like you’ve committed to the wrong person? Despite your best efforts—believe me, I understand—you can’t seem to reignite that flame of passion, or experience the softness of trust and the safety of deep, loving intimacy that you once knew?
Are those sweet, joyful moments fading away, replaced with anger, resentment, and endless silence? Arguments seem to overshadow the authentic, unconditional love you envisioned when you made your commitment to each other.
Do you feel disheartened after spending hundreds—maybe even thousands—on books, courses, and counseling, only to see no real transformation in your love life?
💔 Have you felt a spark with someone else or longed to connect with another? Has your heart been shattered by betrayal, whether through infidelity or the painful neglect of your partner as they ignore your needs, wants, and desires?
Do you often find yourself contemplating or even threatening divorce, torn between the longing for your "true" love and the discomfort of dating, with all its potential disappointments? You may feel consumed by a nagging fear that something isn’t quite right in your relationship, yet it seems like there are no truly good options available. Deep down, you believed this connection was “the one,” offering everything you ever desired—but now, doubts cloud your heart, and trusting your judgment has become a challenge.
✨ If this resonates with you, you’re not alone.
Let’s embark on a transformative journey together—a magical retreat designed to rekindle that lost connection and awaken the passionate love you deserve. Imagine a serene paradise where you can immerse yourself in healing, reconnect with your partner, and rediscover the joy of intimacy and romance.
Join us in this enchanting experience, where you will learn to reignite the fire in your relationship, heal old wounds, and transform your love story into one filled with trust, desire, and intimate connection. 🌺
Are you ready to reignite your love and step into a new chapter of your relationship? Your magical transformation awaits! 🌟
Why Choose James and Daegan as Your Coaches?
Because We See You—We've Been There Too.
After years of experimentation and refinement, we developed the skills to create "mad love." Daegan is a certified Laura Doyle Relationship Coach and a Tony Robbins Transformation Coach, and together we’ve attended retreats, mastering the fine art of passion with tantric principles that ignite irresistible attraction and connection. Our approach leverages the dynamic polarity between masculine and feminine energy to foster genuine intimacy.
Through countless methods, we distilled our strategies into a magical formula that we now share in person at our “Reclaim Your Soulmate Retreat” in our Romantic Oceanview Hawaiian Retreat Center. This package includes our book, Together We Rise: A Spiritual Guide to Recreating Your Soulmate Love After Breakdown, along with an accompanying workbook and six months of coaching. We'll dive deep into the skills that will make your partner crave every part of you—body, mind, and spirit. Your magnetic passion is calling; will you answer the call?
Repeat after me
I am magical.
I have incredible skills within me, just waiting to be unleashed that create unpresidented sexual and emotional trust and passion in my marriage.
Me and my partner are soulmates.
I can—and will—create magnetism within me, making me irresistible to my parter. We can and will love each other unconditionally.
delight all six sences in Haliewa Hawaii as we transform your love life
calling all Foodies
At our retreats, we celebrate the joy of food with a focus on gourmet, farm-to-table cuisine that delights the senses. As passionate foodies ourselves, we understand the importance of high-quality ingredients and spare no expense in curating a culinary experience for our guests, featuring locally sourced filet mignon and a variety of beef cuts from the Big Island, along with unique dishes crafted from our homegrown fruits and vegetables and fresh seafood caught by local Hawaiian fishermen.
Immerse yourself in the abundant flavors of Hawaii, savoring the same culinary splendor that greeted the native Hawaiians upon their arrival to the islands.
It all begins with you—the enchanting voice that co-creates the marriage of your dreams and the radiant belief in your manifesting power. Your thoughts and beliefs about your relationship are divinely orchestrated, woven together by the universe, as both you and your partner embody Your divine essence. When you choose to embrace mad love, you unlock the majestic potential to conjure a reality overflowing with passionate & unconditional love, transforming your relationship into a beautiful tapestry of connection and joy.
The Profound Healing Power of the Hawaiian Islands 🌺
At our retreat, we harness the sacred essence of the Hawaiian Islands—where the land, sea, sky unite in a magnificent tapestry of healing. The sustainable growth of our farm, with its lush plants and abundant harvest, serves as a powerful metaphor for the internal healing that blossoms between two committed souls.
Surrounded by the vibrant energy of nature, we invite divine guidance and the spiritual essence of the universe to co-create a journey filled with love and harmony. Activities are thoughtfully designed to enhance this healing experience, including:
Prayerful Meditation: Channeling intention and inviting divine support.
Recommitment Ceremonies: At the end of the 7-day retreat, you’ll dress up for a heartfelt ceremony where you place a lei around each other's neck and crown the woman, symbolizing your unconditional love in the spirit of your passionate soulmate union. Photos and videos will capture this magical moment, providing lasting reminders of your transformation.
Hiking Adventures: Absorbing the transformative spirit of the land.
Sea Immersion: Connecting with the healing properties of the ocean.
Planting: Bridging the physical and spiritual aspects to nourish your connection.
We’ll explore the 10 Spiritual Soulmate Skills outlined in James and Daegan Phoenix's book, Together We Rise: A Spiritual Guide to Recreating Soulmate Love After Marital Breakdown.
When integrated into your experience, these skills facilitate profound transformation and renewed love.
Join us in this magical space, where the healing spirit of Hawaii ignites the love and connection you desire. 🌊
let the aloha of the Hawaiian islands-land& sea, heal you
Included in your retreat 12-1 hour one on one session with Coaches Daegan or James
Your coaches guide you through the pain of the past during this retreat and then continue with you on this journey for the next 6 months after the retreat to help you take massive action towards your powerful impact on your marriage and family.
These sessions help you explore how this magnificent rebirth impacts the growth of your mind, body, and spirit as you call upon your highest self to step into your marriage filled with passionate unconditional love.
Availability is limited–book now
Testimonials
Are you getting excited yet?
Introducing
the best decision your life
“Spending just one week with Coaches James and Daegan Phoenix profoundly changed my life. Before attending the retreat in Hawaii, I didn't believe my marriage could ever heal. However, their vibrant love and joyful energy guided us out of our pain and filled us with hope. Having successfully transformed their own marriage gave us the faith that we could reclaim ours too.
We felt empowered to rediscover our spark while taking accountability for our actions, breaking free from the blame cycle that had kept us trapped. The meals were culinary masterpieces—fresh and delicious—while the serene surroundings provided a peaceful and healing atmosphere. Our beautifully decorated canvas tents offered the perfect escape to reconnect away from the hustle and bustle of daily life.
For the first time in years, Dave and I truly connected. We learned to touch with mindful intention and communicate with soft, radiant, unconditional love and passion. Our walls came crashing down, and forgiveness blossomed in place of past resentments.
James and Daegan saved our marriage, and our faith and trust in God have increased dramatically. We have put an end to fighting, replacing it with cuddles and kisses. Just thinking about those transformative seven days in paradise brings tears to my eyes. Thank you, Daegan and James. We love you for the incredible impact you've made in our lives.”
Miriam and Dave
Relationships are Spiritual Assignments
— Gabby Bernstein
“My favorite revelation from this retreat was the profound understanding that I am a spiritual being on an incredible journey. My marriage is not just a union; it’s a sacred assignment, guiding me toward the woman I aspire to become.
I once believed that I entered into marriage to seek something outside of myself, but now I realize that it was always about uncovering the beautiful soul within me that was waiting to emerge. Every challenge in my marriage has become a transformative catalyst, helping me evolve into the version of myself that loves unconditionally—through, and even because of, the obstacles I face.
This experience has awakened a deep sense of purpose and passion in my heart, and I am grateful for the journey of growth that lies ahead.”
Christina S.
soulmates again
"We had no idea how ridiculous it was to leave our marriage on the back burner for so long. I guess we just didn't understand how important it was to make our love and romance our number one priority. We were so unhappy and we didn't really even notice. We stopped having sex, stopped flirting, stopped cuddling and focused on the kids.
It was the affair that really jolted us and we decided that we didn't want to break up our family so this retreat was the investment we made in place of lawyer fees. We are more in love then we have ever been. We really did reclaim our soulmate love."
Allysa & Paul
My favorite part of the retreat?
The Recommitment ceremony
“We got married at a young age and welcomed our first baby that same year, quickly adding two more little ones in the following years. However, as tensions rose and we found ourselves yelling and contemplating separation, our parents stepped in with an incredible gift: the opportunity to attend this transformative retreat and coaching program.
It was truly the best gift anyone could ever give us. The coaching and classes were profoundly inspiring, the food exquisitely crafted, and the charming decor of the canvas tents created a stunning and cozy atmosphere. But the moment that truly changed my life was the recommitment ceremony.
Watching my husband look at me as if I were the only woman in the world, pouring out his love completely, filled my heart with a joy I had never experienced before. The photos and videos captured those precious moments, preserving them for a lifetime. I will forever be grateful to our parents for their unwavering support and to James and Daegan for their breathtaking retreat and continuous coaching.
Thank you from the depths of my heart, forever and always!”
Tiffany and Josh
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Arrival day
Arrive on Day One at or after 4 PM and check into your beautiful canvas tent or cozy cabana, where a warm welcome awaits you! Sip on a refreshing Mai Tai as you enjoy a delightful picnic-style dinner, perfectly planned for guests arriving at various times.
Meet your fellow participants and begin to forge new friendships in this enchanting setting. As the sun sets, gather around the crackling fire to indulge in the sweet delight of s'mores, or simply cuddle up and unwind, allowing the soothing ambiance to wrap you in comfort. It’s the perfect way to start your transformative journey together!
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Day Two : Manifest Your vision & Gratitude
Breakfast: 8:00 - 9:00 AM
Start your day in paradise with a magical breakfast featuring fresh, farm-sourced fruits, local free-range eggs, and our special homemade honey bread. Gather in our inviting kitchen or take your meal outside, where the sweet sounds of chirping birds and the gentle rustle of the banana trees create a serene backdrop for your morning.
Vision Session: 9:30 - 10:30 AM
Join us for a transformative vision session where we dive deep into the desires of our hearts and define what we truly seek in our relationships. Together, we will partake in a couples heart chakra opening meditation and prayer, realigning our energies and creating a sacred space for connection with our partners utilizing gratitude and SFP's for manifestation and alignment.
Session 1: 10:30 AM - 12:00 PM
Unlock the magic within you during the Sacred Sexual Energy & the Dance of Polarity Workshop, enriched with group coaching. Explore the profound depths of intimacy and polarity, awakening a powerful energy that elevates your relationship to new heights.
Afternoon Day 2
Healing waters Snorkeling
Local caught fresh mahi mahi, bowl with Jasmine lemon rice organic lettuce cucumber red onion. and Lunch from noon to 1:00 PM and then off travel in a convoy to swimming with turtles. The ocean's healing waters effortlessly realign your energy when you feel disconnected. During our ocean session, we’ll journey by boat to swim and snorkel with the vibrant marine life of the North Shore, including graceful turtles and colorful tropical fish. Before we enter the water, we’ll engage in an intention-setting meditation, allowing the ocean's abundant life force to infuse our energy fields and rejuvenate our souls. ✨🌊
Evening day 2
Dinner and dance
Dinner: 6:00 - 7:00 PM
As the sun begins to set, immerse yourself in a culinary delight featuring our sumptuous Big Island ribeye steak and succulent Kauai shrimp, accompanied by a refreshing papaya mango salsa and perfectly grilled asparagus. For dessert, indulge in our heavenly passionfruit crème brûlée, handcrafted with love from hand-picked fruit, ensuring each bite is a taste of paradise.
Island Dance Party: 7:30 - 9:00 PM
As twilight blankets the island, gather under a canopy of stars for an enchanting island-style dance party! This is your chance to let loose and embrace the rhythm of the night. Practice your flirting and dance skills—whether it’s slow dancing or ballroom—you’re sure to find joy in every step.
Enjoy the refreshing taste of mojitos and sip on Maui’s exquisite passionfruit and pineapple wine as you feel the energy of the night ignite your spirit. Let's unleash the vibrant life force within us and create unforgettable memories under the stars!
Morning Day 3
Care Cycles and Spiritual Self Love
Breakfast: 9:00 - 10:00 AM
Awaken your senses with a sumptuous breakfast featuring our homemade Ube French toast, adorned with luscious passionfruit harvested fresh from our farm, and drizzled with rich sweet bourbon cream. Enjoy the delightful pairing of thick-cut, pineapple-glazed bacon that perfectly complements this decadent morning feast, all crafted from the bountiful produce of our land.
Group Workshop: 10:30 AM - 12:00 PM
After a nourishing meal, immerse yourself in our enlightening workshop on care cycles and spiritual self-love. This transformative session includes group coaching designed to help you navigate individual issues while building a supportive community. Within this nurturing environment, couples will have the unique opportunity to connect deeply in love and healing as we openly share our challenges and embrace our spiritual energy.
day 3 afternoon
Lunch, Journal, free time
Lunch:
Gather for a mesmerizing culinary experience featuring our aromatic lemongrass chicken vermicelli bowls, bursting with flavor and topped with fresh mint grown right from our farm. Each bowl is artfully layered with delicate rice noodles and luscious Hawaiian avocados, all complemented by our handmade spring rolls and a perfectly balanced sweet and tangy vinegar sauce that dances on your palate. For a refreshing finale, indulge in our exquisite dragon fruit sorbet, lovingly harvested from our orchards, offering a taste of tropical paradise that will delight your senses.
Meditation and Journaling Session:
After this delightful lunch, we’ll transition into a serene meditation and journaling session designed to tap into our eternal natures. Together, we will embark on a journey of inspiration and spiritual guidance through the practice of free writing, exploring what it means to be soulmates and to embody the essence of our twin flames.
Evening day 3
Dinner and Coaching
Evening Schedule
Free Time for Sacred Intimacy
After an exhilarating afternoon, immerse yourself in a sacred interlude designed for deepening connections. Embrace this precious time as an opportunity to see yourselves not merely as humans with past mistakes, but as radiant spiritual beings, united through energetic connection. Engage in mindful intention and gentle touch, creating an atmosphere of love, trust, and profound understanding.
6:00 PM - Dinner Delicacies
Savor the enchanting flavors of authentic local lau lau—tender wild pig lovingly wrapped in Hawaiian kalo leaves and baked underground, infusing the dish with a rich, earthy essence. Accompanied by vibrant lomi lomi and creamy taro (Hawaiian sweet potato), allow each bite to transport you to a tropical paradise. Refresh your spirit with invigorating dragonfruit coconut margaritas that tantalize the senses. For a sweet finale, indulge in our Fruit Sago, a delightful coconut tapioca pudding adorned with the freshest farm-picked fruits, offering a taste of nature’s sweetness in every spoonful.
Evening Gathering
As the stars begin to shimmer overhead, we will gather around a sacred fire for a profound twin flames group meditation and coaching session. Together, we will honor the journey we've traveled by releasing our past into the flames, creating space for healing and renewal. In this sacred circle, we’ll embrace the soulmate future that awaits us, igniting our hearts with love, intention, and the promise of new beginnings. Let the warmth of the fire and the magic of the night guide us in this transformative experience.
Morning Day 4
Heart talks and unconditional love
9:00 - 10:00 AM
Breakfast Bliss: Enjoy caramelized flambe raw cane sugar happiness farm bananas, our delicious passionfruit mochi pancakes, and savory Portuguese sausage. 10:30 AM - 12:00 PM
Heart Talks & Unconditional Love Workshop: Dive deep into intimate storytelling and group coaching, where we’ll practice speaking the language of love and listening without taking offense. 12:00 - 1:00 PM
Lunch Delight: Savor locally caught fresh mahi mahi, served in bowls with Jasmine lemon rice, organic lettuce, cucumber, red onion, and refreshing banana mango smoothies. 1:00 PM Onwards
Nature Adventure: Venture into the wild on the Waimano or Waimea Falls trails. At the top, we’ll gather for a couples meditation, awakening unconditional love and healing the heart and sacral chakras, fostering deep sexual and emotional connection. 🌿💖
Evening day 4
Dinner and Fire/ hula dancing show
6-8 PM Let the night come alive with a mesmerizing hula fire dancing show that celebrates the rich tapestry of Hawaiian Polynesian culture. As you dine on exquisite seared scallops drizzled with passionfruit purée and fresh local pasta in a creamy basil sauce, your senses will be truly delighted. Enjoy refreshing Dragonfruit mojitos, and savor the sweet indulgence of mango sticky rice for dessert.
As the stars twinkle above, you’ll create cherished memories of intimate moments that you'll carry with you, reliving this enchanting evening under the moonlit sky time and again. 🌙✨
Morning Day 5
win win Collaboration
Morning Schedule
9:00 - 10:00 AM - Breakfast
Begin your day with a delightful local twist on a beloved classic—savor a bowl of perfectly cooked rice paired with freshly picked garden herbs, complemented by our flavorful ground beef and Kauai pork patty. Crowned with a beautifully sunny side up egg, this dish is designed to enliven your senses as the gentle breeze whispers through the papaya trees, setting the tone for a magical morning in paradise.
10:30 AM - 12:00 PM - Class Session
Engage in an inspiring class designed to unveil the art of creative communication through the powerful practice of win-win collaboration. Discover techniques that foster mutual understanding and connection as each couple learns to harness this skill. Afterward, take the opportunity to put your newfound abilities to the test, returning to the group to share your experiences and receive coaching on your results. This interactive session promises growth and deeper connection, setting the stage for unforgettable moments together.
12:00 - 1:00 PM - Lunch
Indulge in a culinary masterpiece featuring local seared tuna sashimi, artfully presented with torched garlic mayo, succulent mango, creamy avocado, sweet Maui onions, and delicate tobiko. Each bite serves as a celebration of the ocean's bounty, bringing the vibrant flavors of the islands to your plate and enhancing your overall experience.
Afternoon day 5
Vulnerability & my beach our lagoon
Group Workshop 1:30-5:00
Dive into the fine spiritual work of vulnerability, humility, and respecting boundaries, using the beach and lagoon metaphor from our book, Together We Rise. Afterward, we’ll enjoy group coaching, practicing these magical skills together. Beach Picnic Date 6-8 PM
After our workshop, we head to the beach for a flirty and fun picnic! Experience romance that blossoms over time in a beautifully set atmosphere, complete with flowers, gourmet mini sandwiches, and bubbly virgin mojitos made from farm-fresh fruit.
Having just learned the skills of soft vulnerability and passion, embrace your masculine and feminine energies to fully enjoy this moment together. We’ll capture it all with photos and videos, so dress to impress and bring your most enchanting self! 🌊✨
Morning Day 6
respect & Receiving
Morning Schedule
9:00 - 10:00 AM - Breakfast
Get ready for the highlight of your retreat! Savor an extraordinary German pancake delight loaded with fresh berries, guava, and passionfruit, topped with whipped cream infused with Hawaiian orchid vanilla beans, Irish butter, and genuine Canadian maple syrup. Enjoy a side of crispy pork belly drizzled with a tantalizing pineapple-passionfruit glaze—your taste buds will thank you!
10:30 AM - 12:30 PM - Class Session
Gather to explore the super skills of respect and receiving, unlocking your inner trust while playfully flirting with the thought, “I trust you.” Open your heart chakra and welcome the loving acts of service, gifts, and quality time your partner offers, ensuring that passion flourishes even when it feels like it's fading.
12:30 - 1:30 PM - Lunch
Indulge in a culinary treasure: poached eggs with shiitake mushrooms, tamarillo, and sage, all crafted from our farm-fresh eggs and garden herbs. Complement this delight with homemade sourdough and Irish butter, igniting a multi-sensory experience that will leave you craving more!
afternoon & Evening day 6
Relax & get ready for magic
Get Ready for Your Zero Prep, Zero Stress Recommitment Ceremony: 1:30 - 5:00 PM
Let your divine light shine as you relax and embrace this sacred experience. This isn’t a wedding; this is a recommitment ceremony—an opportunity for your spiritual energy to connect with your partner's highest self. Take time to journal, allowing your spirit to radiate the love that brought you here today, while honoring the spiritual guides, angels, and ancestors supporting you.
When you're ready, don your favorite outfit to capture this magical moment in photos you’ll cherish forever. Then, we’ll journey to the beach for your first energetic love ceremony, aligning divine masculine and feminine energies.
We’ll begin with a prayer meditation in the sand, setting intentions to welcome the powerful energies of soulmate and twin flame unions. Each couple will have about 15 minutes to walk the path, share heartfelt words, and connect deeply, all beautifully captured in photos and videos. Finally, we’ll sign the recommitment ceremony contract and celebrate the blossoming love around us!
evening Day 6
soulmate celebration
Return to the farm as the sun sets, painting the sky in hues of gold and purple, while stars begin to twinkle above. Gather around for a sumptuous buffet-style spread of celebratory delights, featuring Thai-style chicken with zesty green papaya salad, a gorgeous charcuterie board, and an array of tropical farm-fresh fruits. Indulge your sweet tooth with decadent Hawaiian rainbow cream cake, luscious banana puddings, and so much more.
To elevate the festivities, we’ll toast with champagne, savoring each shimmering bubble as we celebrate love together. Each of us will take a moment to share heartfelt words, toasting, dancing, and reveling in the magical connections we've forged. Join us in this enchanting celebration, where every moment sparkles with joy and gratitude!
day 7 Meditation prayer, breakfast & check out
begin again
Send Off Meditation Prayer with Breakfast: 8:00 - 9:00 AM
Start your day with vibrant dragonfruit bowls, adorned with a medley of our own tropical fruits—mango, strawberry, and papaya—topped with crunchy nuts and seeds, flax, and drizzled with Macadamia nut blossom honey. Enjoy this delight over luscious whole milk organic yogurt or a thick smoothie, complemented by a generous slice of our homemade bread, spread with butter and a selection of tropical jellies.
Gather for a heartfelt farewell as we set intentions of oneness, unconditional love, fun, and passionate romance as our soulmate journey continues. We encourage everyone to stay connected within our community, supporting one another as Coaches James and Daegan work tirelessly to uplift and inspire.
As we share our final goodbyes and heartfelt namastes, let us recognize our shared journey. The light in me sees and honors the light in you.
DID YOU KNOW…
The average person spends over 7.15 hours a day on screens and 21-24 hours indoors, creating a significant misalignment in our energetic bodies—both within ourselves and with our partners. This retreat invites you back to the wild, immersing you in a tropical outdoor paradise filled with the nature spirits of plants, trees, animals, and birds, reconnecting you with the essence of the earth.
We all need to be rewilded, to reconnect with the energetic fields of the earth, sea, and sky, embracing its oxygen-rich abundance. More importantly, it’s time to realign your inner guidance system, shedding fear, stress, anxiety, and worry. The gifts of the farm will rejuvenate you swiftly.
Come together and unite with your soulmate under the spirit of Oahu, the turquoise tropical waters of the Pacific Ocean, and the enchanting spirit of aloha in the air. We were never meant to live in constant misalignment and fear. Hawaii Happiness Farm is waiting for you!
I’m not holding back and I’m not keeping secrets; this is the real deal, designed to walk you through tried-and-true spiritual skills in small, bite-sized steps to realign you and your partner so that you can genuinely celebrate your soulmate love again.
Confidently embrace unconditional love again without any hesitation.
Design a magical connection that is spiritually gorgeous and packed with gentle moments and passionate intimacy.
Know exactly what to say and do in order to hook your partners trust, compassionate understanding, help and support for the long term.
Never sit in limbo without the support of your loving community of like minded soulmate love seekers with their own inspiring stories to tell.
Build and share a foundation of heartfelt conversations with successful outcomes for the future of your love life and the many decisions that you need to make each day without getting into arguments with your partner.
Drive passion in the bedroom & flirting in the kitchen with magnetic masculine and feminine energies.
Ok, so how can i access these secrets?
Click the "Buy Now" button to select your retreat date and secure your spot with a $199 deposit. This deposit is fully refundable until after your intake call, in case either you or your partner, or even your coaches, determine that the program and retreat do not align with your relationship goals.
Once your bohemian canvas tent or cabana is chosen, the deposit becomes non-refundable but can be transferred to another couple or a different date if arranged at least one month prior to the retreat.
$199
total retreat sale price cost $7999 Can be made in three payments -regular price $12,999
free bonus
6 month coaching package included value $1999
Wait, there’s more? That’s right friend
Along with this incredible retreat, where I share all of my "mad spiritual love secrets," I’m including 12 one-hour virtual sessions to support you for six months following the retreat.
You'll benefit from a group chat with fellow soulmate love seekers, providing empathy and inspiring stories to help illuminate any blind spots as you work through issues together. Additionally, you'll have access to written support from your coaches via the Voxer app, allowing us to guide you through any challenges that arise between your coaching sessions.
This $1999 value is yours for FREE when you purchase the Reclaim Your Soulmate Retreat!
customer testimonials
Sara H.
Coach Daegan possesses a remarkable ability to deeply understand my heart on a spiritual level, empowering me to take action rooted in self-love and empathy towards my husband. James and Daegan have crafted a truly transformative experience that fosters genuine connection with your partner and weaves a beautiful love story in your relationship. If you're considering attending, I highly recommend jumping in as soon as possible!
Tristan and Lily
Our love life, passion, and connection skyrocketed by 1000% during the 7-day retreat and continued to flourish in the months that followed as we implemented James and Daegan's skills. Their spiritual methods truly work—when you give 100% of yourself to your partner, you receive the same in return! It’s an incredible transformational experience that you won’t want to miss.
Jack and Julie
Coach James is truly one of the few relationship coaching gurus who offers impactful advice. His guidance has taken my spiritual love life, heart, and soul to a whole new level! This has been the best experience of our lives together, and we can't thank this coach couple enough for the love and energy they've poured into the retreat center, the book, the workbook, the farm-fresh meals, and the beautiful tents!
MEET THE Coaching team—James and Daegan
James and Daegan Phoenix have triumphantly emerged from a 14-year journey marked by painful disconnection in their marriage. Their incredible transformation stemmed from a deep commitment to learning and growth, earning certifications as coaches from Tony Robbins and Laura Doyle, along with master hypnotherapy training.
Having successfully facilitated their own self-led retreats, they now host the transformative "Reclaim Your Soulmate Retreat" at their custom-designed Hawaii Happiness Farm & Retreat Center. As authors of Together We Rise: A Spiritual Approach to Overcoming Marital Trauma and Breakdown, they are on a mission to transform relationships, guiding couples from painful disconnect and broken trust to awakened, passionate spiritual love.
James and Daegan are dedicated to helping others reclaim their connections, experiencing the profound joy that comes from truly loving partnerships.
We had no idea how to love each other. Our relationship was fraught with constant fighting, demands for control, and a desperate plea to be heard and understood. With a fragile family of nine children, it felt like we were perpetually walking on eggshells, yearning for the love we so desperately needed. We faced infidelity, addiction, and separation, yet every time we reunited, we clung to our love, buoyed by unseen spiritual support that was profoundly felt. Counseling offered little relief; we found ourselves merely putting out fires, failing to set a positive example for our children.
One pivotal moment came when I knew I had to end it all. Guided to attend a retreat run by Focus on the Family in Arizona, we unearthed the essential skills to truly love each other. Following this, we embarked on a two-month journey around the Caribbean, exploring the Bahamas, Puerto Rico, and Jamaica. During this transformative time, we received spiritual teachings directly from the source, allowing us to grasp the essence of real love. It wasn't about negotiation or power struggles—it was a gentle whisper of divine empathy and the authentic practice of unconditional love.
Learning from the world's best coaches and true gurus of service in an often fearful world, we certified in three disciplines dedicated to healing and connection. Our growth is continuous; while we are not perfect, we are spiritual beings having a divinely guided human experience. We are here to lead you to a place where you can genuinely love one another in mind, body, and spirit.
Let us guide you in opening your hearts, minds, and souls to discover a passion and commitment like no other.
With love,
Your Coaches,
James and Daegan Phoenix
your Bohemian accommodations
coconut camp
Celebrate the true essence of your vision for love with a luxurious soft king bed, eclectic décor, and a thoughtfully curated love celebration basket awaiting your arrival.
This enchanting bohemian goddess canvas tent is nestled on a beautiful deck overlooking the ocean. If you listen closely, you’ll hear the soothing sounds of waves in the distance, accompanied by the delightful chorus of birds. Immerse yourself in paradise and experience the magic of Goddess Glamping, where serenity and beauty unite to create an unforgettable escape! ✨🏖️
Soft sheepskin rugs, handwoven baskets, and golden accents create an atmosphere of warmth and luxury. Pampas grass and beautiful floral bouquets enhance the space, leaving you feeling truly cared for as you connect with your natural environment. This inviting ambiance fosters a sense of tranquility and harmony, making your experience all the more blissful. 🌿✨
The passion comes alive in this goddess-worthy wonder, where indulgence knows no bounds. Don’t forget to explore the delightful toys and treats we’ve provided for this special week of playful passion and fiery energy with your lover. Embrace the magic of connection and let your desires ignite in this enchanting space, creating unforgettable memories together. 🎉❤️✨
magical mermaid
one mermaid luxury adorned
queen bed canvas tent
When the sun and moon cross paths they begin a new cycle.
Explore how this magnificent rebirth with 6 magical nights as a mermaid impacts the growth of your mind, body, and spirit.
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natural luxury
seaglass & seahorse
Embrace your inner twin flame wisdom in true natural tropical style at our Reclaim Your Soulmate Retreat, where a luxurious soft king bed and eclectic decor await you in a stunning canvas tent. Upon your arrival, indulge in a thoughtfully curated love celebration basket, setting the stage for a deeply romantic experience.
Twin flames always seek to align their spirits before they do anything else. In this luxury tent be prepared to embody the true essence of twin flame love.
Experience imagery so powerful and captivating that it draws in your soulmate love in our enchanting glamping tents. Under the magical essence of the cosmos, you'll create unforgettable moments together that resonate with your deepest desires.
These masterfully designed tents facilitate the magic you seek as the moon and stars twinkle overhead, serenading you to sleep with the soothing sounds of nature. Immerse yourself in a tranquil ambiance that enhances your connection and awakens your senses.
Fairy cottage
Luxury among the fairies
The large garden canvas abode features a plush king bed and the finest luxuries, including Hawaiian-grown delights and refreshing beverages awaiting you in your mini fridge. Experience an oasis of comfort and indulgence that elevates your stay.
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Photography studio
Banana cabana
Celebrating the true essence of your vision with the expertise and artistry of this adorable cabana with it's own kitchen, outdoor bathtub and and bathroom.
This tiny mansion boasts a sprawling deck, a relaxing hot tub, and a large table for all your homework needs, complemented by a charming set of swings and a cozy sofa. Upstairs in the loft, indulge in the comfort of a cushy memory foam king bed for a restful night's sleep.
Thoughtfully designed and delightfully sweet, this cabana will leave you feeling adored, offering extra space for you and your soulmate to embrace the tantric transition together. It’s the perfect retreat for deep connection and intimacy.
Immerse yourself in the enchantment of your very own garden tub, where soothing waters cradle your body, mind, and spirit. As the alluring sounds of paradise surround you, let your gaze drift to the starlit sky above—the outdoor tub is open to the heavens, inviting you to bask in the magic of the universe. This is your perfect escape for rejuvenation and serenity, allowing every soak to feel like a splendid journey into tranquility.
The bird house
Let the magic of magnetism come alive in this thatch roofed cabana
This charming retreat features an adorable mini kitchen, a private bathroom, and an outdoor enclosed bathtub area where you can enjoy the soothing sounds of birds while wishing upon shooting stars. With a luxurious king bed on the main level and a cozy queen bed in the loft, this space is perfect for relaxation and connection.
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Eat In Style in our boho rustic retreat kitchen.
— Designed by Daegan
Let the transformation begin with gourmet farm-fresh masterpieces shared among friends who truly see and appreciate you. This experience fosters deep connections and memorable moments, enhancing the joy of each delicious bite.
WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR?
Let the stars align in this enchanting cosmic universe as you experience the magic of connection at the Reclaim Your Soulmate Retreat in Hawaii. Allow your hearts to synchronize in a journey of love and transformation amidst the breathtaking beauty of nature.
Lets make magic happen
choose your retreat date
Once you place your deposit, we will manually set up your date, your accommodations and reach out to you for your intake interview to ensure a seamless preparation process.
December 1-8/25
February 1-8/25
April 1-8/25
June 1-8/25
July 1-8/25